Marriage mantras

Marriage is sweet when you examine it from afar, some of those who have successful marriages or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into it, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven.  Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments?  However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage.  There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you. 1. Staying faithful It's easy to abstain from sex as singles if you have not tasted how sweet sex is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied sex for no just reason.  The temptation to commit adultery is greater than th...

Cheating absolutely sucks. There should be no room for any kind of infidelity or unfaithfulness in a romantic relationship. There is absolutely no rational scenario on earth that would make cheating justifiable. There is no circumstance wherein cheating is okay. But still, it happens And you need to brace yourself for it when it does.  When you get into a relationship with someone, you always want to be seeing the best of them. You always want to assume that they're going to do right by you and that they would never betray you. However, the fact of the matter is that it's still possible that the person you love the most is going to betray you.  That's why you still want to be keeping your guard up. You still want to be keeping vigilant. And a lot of that lies in making sure that you be on the lookout for any red flags. If you're curious as to what you should be looking out for, then read on until the end of this article.  Highlighted here will be a few phrases that ...

Well,  kumwesu , a page from Facebook explains 11 things as follows; 1. YOUR SPOUSE'S SEXUAL STRUGGLES If your husband doesn't last long in bed or his penis loses erection quickly, if your wife has an unpleasant smell or she struggles to do some sex positions; don't expose him/her to your friends or someone who you are flirting with in bid to justify why you are flirting. The sexual struggles in your marriage should be kept a secret as you both feel safe seeking solutions together 2. THE SWEETEST PART ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE If the sex in your marriage is incredible, don't go around sharing all the details; not because you are afraid your friends will want to steal your sexually amazing spouse, but because some things are best kept special by being kept secret just between you two. Others may know your spouse is great in bed, but they don't need to know the details of how great. Your love making is not for their entertainment 3. YOUR SPOUSE'S SALARY Be c...

  Well, cheating is always TERRIBLE ! The pain in such a case is not that of the spouse indulging in acts of sexual nature with somebody else outside the marriage, but the fact that the spouse chose to do it secretively and hence ended up breaking the very trust on which the bond of husband and wife is created and stands on. This shatters the entire faith in the person where the cheated person doubts the ability of the spouse to provide a safe place to stay, live happily and build a successful life together. Why does cheating happens in the first place anyway? Well, there can be no one single answer to this question. it could be any of the following :        1. lack of attention in the married life. In a marriage, attention means giving time, care, and focus to your partner. Sometimes, people become busy with work, hobbies, or other responsibilities, and they may not pay enough attention to their spouse. This can make the other person feel sad, lone...

     •  Jealousy can hide in complements, envy can hide in support and hate can hide in love. Just because they’re giving it to you, doesn’t mean they have it for you.   •  No one is judging you as hard as you think. And if they are, that sounds more of a their problem than your problem..   •  Everybody says they are grown and mature until it’s time to apologize or communicate.   •  Leave people in whatever the reality they have chosen..   •  People always have a way of revealing who they are. You just have to give them space and time to do so. No mask can be worn forever..   •  Trust nobody, people talk good and still move different..   •  The less people you chill with, the less problems you deal with..   •  Anybody can change suddenly, doesn’t matter how close the bond is. At some point you have to let people go, before they destroy you as a person. It’s not overreacting, we a...

A woman named ORLY-KREMER    from quora on Jan 6 wrote;     No, they do not and I am writing it from a bitter experience . I married a man who had an affair when he was married to his first wife, his wife died and then we met. He told me about the affair and that he ended it and moved to another country to finish it. After being married for 16 good years he suddenly decided to look for his lover and to find out what happened to her and he did. she got divorced and remarried and had 3 more children but she was not happy. They started talking on Skype for hours and he refused to stop it they exchanged gifts and photos laughed and cried and were sorry that they were not together anymore. a nightmare started in our home All the love that we had gone through, I tried to save our marriage but with no success, and in the end, I gave up They kept on talking and she even came to see him. It went on for 17 years until one day I decided to leave him and told hi...