Marriage mantras

according to the original content on Facebook page called everystrongheart   the contents were paraphrased below; Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 SEX YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE BROWN SEX:  Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.  YELLOW SEX:  This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love. RED SEX:  This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together. NECESSITY SEX:  I met a couple recently, w...

Whenever you find yourself starting to miss someone you really loved… But perhaps someone who just didn’t appreciate you. Someone who just didn’t care about how you felt. Someone who you loved so much, but someone who just treated you like an option. Stop for a moment, and remember Remember the disrespect. Remember all the times when your feelings didn’t matter and were invalidated. Remember how your worth was completely disregarded. Remember when your boundaries were ignored time and time again. Remember what they deliberately and knowingly did to break your trust over and over again. Remember all the times you begged them for the basics and you begged them to treat you as though they loved you, but they still refused. Remember how it made you feel. Remember just how much it hurt. Remember how disappointed you felt. Remember how betrayed you felt. Because this was real. This was how you really felt. This was someone’s version of love for you... It’s normal to miss someone who you onc...

  There are tons of men who are willing to do 10 times of what you can do for your woman.  Men who will outbid you plainly when it comes to doing great things for your woman.  One thing you have to understand about women is that there are men out their who will simp more, want your woman more and even go extra mile to do more than you can do for your woman. Its true. This should not worry you a bit, because I want to teach you how you can stay ahead of the game.  Somebody shout Hallelujah..... hahaha.  As a man the first education you should know about women is that you must not do more than yourself because you can not SATISFY A WOMAN NEEDS AND WANTS MOST, you can only do your best and live the rest for her to excercise the level of self control over her desires and then display how genuinely she loves you.  You can't do more to keep a woman who wants more than you can give. As a man, the best thing you can do while dealing with woman is to put yourself i...

Men need sex to survive and are the strongest people on Earth that are so gifted both inside and out by nature. what did I mean by the number one NEED of a man is s£x no matter how hard, rich, poor or weak any man is he need s£x to survive yes nature designed it that way, A man need s£x to Survive on Earth. bra bra bra, what a worst of post 😂  Before I go any further, I just came across such a post on Facebook, which says NUMBER ONE NEED OF MAN IS SEX you can click on the link below to read 😁.  Let's get back to our business 🧘 I understood their point, but I would like to respectfully point out that some of the statements made are not entirely accurate and may be harmful in certain contexts.  While sex is an important aspect of human relationships and overall well-being, it is not the only need of man, and its absence does not necessarily lead to physical harm or death.  Additionally, the idea that men need sex daily to be healthy is a myth with no scientific ba...

Sister, If you lose one good man, you will be used and played by atleast 10 men before you can find his replacement. See, if you lose him; men out there will useless you for free as if there is no tomorrow before you get another good man.  👇 Let me tell you this unbelievable truth, "it is much easier to replace a woman with another good woman than it is to replace one good man". Many women out there are willing to change, mend their ways and become a good girl under the right conditions.  Women tend to grow bored and outgrow certain lifestyle choices and attitudes overtime. She can just outgrow it. Age and time factor alone can force a woman fix up.  Not to mention parental pressure and societal expectations. Even the worst girls can change overnight. Even your baddie friend can suddenly become wife material in doings.  But you see men? Coconut heads! Men are only concerned with being a Hero in one woman’s story, and to the rest of the bunch, they don’t mind be...

1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more. 2: Tell her to step into the FIELD not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.  3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain not her privates to make money. 4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become rich girl. 5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President. 6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.  7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.  8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any Man.  9: Train your daughter that internet never forget or forgive, let her know that the foolish post she makes ...

1. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! It makes you look cheap!  No man would want to propose to marry a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance!  2. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup!  A slight makeup is okay; try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better, decent and serious-minded men,­­­­ except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage. 3. Don't Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost.  In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while...

1. Nobody cares about you, your plans, your goals, or your little dramas. So, stop pretending they do, or getting upset when they don't. Do the good things you have to do for your benefits.  2. When it comes to reaching your goals, discipline is more important than motivation. If you don't have discipline, you will never be committed to anything.  3. You are the only person capable of changing your life; no one can do that for you and no amount of excuses can do it for you. The easiest way to change yourself is to change the things you do each day.  4. The biggest threat to your progression in life isn't something or someone around you. It is you.  5. The key to a successful life lies not in what you know, but in what you do with what you know. 6. Failure is just a steppingstone on the road to success.  7. You can't change the past, but you can still d£stroy your future if you repeat the mistakes.  8. Success is not about what you accomplish, it's about wh...

 They don’t. You think I’m joking, but I’m serious. Smart students don’t study. Or rather, they don’t study the way the rest of us think studying should be. When we refer to studying, the vast majority of us think of reviewing by going over notes and terms, and memorizing them. That’s not how the pros do it. I go to a school where I interact with a lot of these extremely smart kids. You know how much time they spend reading over their notes and memorizing stuff? Very close to none. You see, studying simply means preparing yourself for a scenario in which you would demonstrate your knowledge of a given topic. Memory is organized as a link-based storage of events and information such that any one bit of stored memory is accessed by links to and from other information and events. All memorization will do is create more of these areas of information stored in memory, without doing anything to actually produce a way to retrieve the information. The best way to study is to find out the...