Marriage mantras

There are thirteen stupid things a Wife can do to mess up her Marriage, I want you to check them carefully and avoid them. 1) DARE HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You block the door way, you dare him to beat you and see what will happen, lots of women have done this in the past and they end up regretting it. It is unwise to do this. 2) DARE HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it 3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED “I am married, who is looking at me” That was the defense of Mrs paul when she was confronted for the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married women and its a major mistake you can make. 4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY You are a career woman, you feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, girls in Chu...

1. LOWER YOUR VOICE Don't shout at him..He is not your child. Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in a minimum volume tone.  2. DO IT IN LOVE Correction should be done in love. Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistakes and so are you.  3. NEVER EVER CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR INFRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.  Stop criticizing him, especially infront of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper with a gently hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl, men have egos too.. there self esteem are easy to breakdown.  Correction is the act of offering better options. Correction and criticism are never the same 4. LETS CUT THE SAYING “WHATEVER MY WIFE SAYS” Girl, YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS! And so does your husband. Every decision should be talked and planned with the both of you.  If he said your cooking is a little salty, NEVER WALKED OUT OF THE TABLE…instead appo...

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it. Below are some of the evidences... ✅ ATTENTION  When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.  ✅ CARE When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.  ✅ COMMUNICATION  When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.  ✅ GIVING  The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.  ✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER  When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.  ✅ SACRIFICE  The ultimate p...

When you ask a woman out for a relationship and she gives you a reply like this "I am not interested because I am not yet ready for now" trust me what she simply means is that YOU ARE NOT "QAULIFIED" TO DATE ME. Don't be deceived by what she said, she's 100% ready its just that deep inside her heart she's not interested in you, she doesn't love you and don't want you in her life. Let me tell you one of my story. There is this girl I use to love, one day I approached her and confessed my feelings to her, she use that same lines on me and she even told me she love me but she isn't ready, as simp, I continue to press further, she kept on declining but giving me greenlights,  She kept me in her friend zone, for 6+ month I kept on asking and trying to make her change her mind but all my efforts was to no avail. Within same time, a young guy came in the neighborhood and in less than two weeks she started dating the girl that told me she's not ...

1. YOU ARE LOOKING GOOD TODAY  Yes lady, men need compliments too 2. YESTERDAY WAS AMAZING Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego 3. I AM BLESSED TO HAVE YOU  Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued 4. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME  This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is 5. WHAT DO I COOK FOR YOU TONIGHT? Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited 6. I LOVE YOU  No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love 7. CAN I TAKE YOU OUT? Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not everytime things should be left to him 8. I AM SO WET  Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aro...

📌1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING :  This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It's being childish.  📌2. TELLING HER HUSBAND AS NOT MAN ENOUGH:  This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury.  📌3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE":  This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution. 📌4. BEING QUICK TO GET angryY ABOUT EVERYTHING:  Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding. 📌5. CAN'T JUST FO...