DO MARRIED PEOPLE EVER STOP THINKING OF THEIR EX-PARTNER EVEN WHEN YEARS HAVE PASSED?

A woman named ORLY-KREMER from quora on Jan 6 wrote;

No, they do not and I am writing it from a bitter experience. I married a man who had an affair when he was married to his first wife, his wife died and then we met. He told me about the affair and that he ended it and moved to another country to finish it. After being married for 16 good years he suddenly decided to look for his lover and to find out what happened to her and he did.

she got divorced and remarried and had 3 more children but she was not happy. They started talking on Skype for hours and he refused to stop it they exchanged gifts and photos laughed and cried and were sorry that they were not together anymore.

a nightmare started in our home All the love that we had gone through, I tried to save our marriage but with no success, and in the end, I gave up They kept on talking and she even came to see him. It went on for 17 years until one day I decided to leave him and told him so then he ended it (for now). I should have left when he started this, wasted life.

THEY NEVER FORGET and do not believe them if they say they do. My answer is not meant to offend or criticize men. men or women can do this. The question was about men and ex-affairs and to this I answered. I wrote this answer for men or women who are considering marrying someone who had an affair to be careful.

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Another man named K G from Quora on Nov 29 wrote;

I once dated a woman for 5 years and was even engaged to her, but we never got married. The reason was simple - she was constantly receiving texts and calls from a man she had a preoccupied relationship with, even on special occasions like holidays and birthdays.

Despite my repeated requests to end the communication with him, she held onto all the sweet things he had given her and would even receive little "thought about you" texts from him. One night, he even sent a text while we were binge-watching movies, telling her how beautiful she was, and tried to call her when she didn't respond.

When I took the phone and told him she was engaged, he proceeded to bash me for 2-3 minutes, saying how I could never live up to him and that she would never love me like she loves him. Despite all this, my fiance didn't think it was a big deal.

But you know what? It was a big deal. It was disrespectful and unacceptable for her to continue to entertain the advances of someone who had no respect for our relationship. It made me question what else had gone on between them and why he felt the need to talk to me like that.

In conclusion regarding the experiences shared for us with these two mantras and thanks to them to understand that both men and women can hold onto their pasts and that it's up to us to throw out the bad eggs and move on to fresher, more respectful relationships.

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