Marriage mantras

1. PROLONGING SILENT TREATMENT WHEN OFFENDED TO SHOW YOU ARE ANGRY This makes you and your husband used to not talking and makes you two draw further apart doing major damage to your communication. Even when he does wrong, get angry, but get to talk about it and forgive quickly 2. KILLING YOUR SOCIAL LIFE IN THE NAME OF BEING A GOOD WIFE  Don't isolate yourself. Have mature friends to surround you, to grow with you as a wife. This makes your life richer, widens your worldview, challenges you and makes you less demanding on your husband's time. Again, make sure the lady friends you keep are of good character. You need fellow women who will stand with you, iron sharpens iron 3. OVER REACTING OR GETTING EASILY ANGRY  When your husband reveals to you information and you over react or you become highly suspicious or critical of him, that will discourage him from sharing matters with you in future and he will begin to be secretive, not because he wants to but because he would rathe...

Uplift yourself while you are in a dating force  It's better for the relationship to stop moving forward than for your life to stop moving forward. Always be intentional about your dating life. Your dating life should not stop you for progressing in other area of your life. You should not stop chasing your goals, engaging in self improvement programs, indulging in skill acquisition just because you fell in love or because you are in a relationship. A relationship that can't tilt you into becoming a better version of yourself is not worth it. Quit now.. A relationship arena should be an avenue that is structured to transform your life, make you grow towards positivity. That's what being in an healthy relationship means. Don't be in a relationship that only stands to drain you from everything you have spent years in building,  Don't be in a relationships that stops you from exposing yourself to knowledge. Don't be with a parasitic partner, don't accommodate a ...

Sweethearts, I am going to be honest with You Guys..  It's not easy to forget about Someone You truly love, Someone who have become part of your life, Someone You have invested so much on, Someone You are mentally and emotionally attached to, Someone You have shared the best & beautiful memories with, Someone You understand & felt like the person also does the same. Honestly, it's not easy to let go such Person. No matter how easy I make this "move on" sound to You here, it's never easy and I understand but the thing is that You have no options than to learn how to adapt in their "Absence". You see, if You fail to gather the courage and strength to move on from a failed "Relationship", You will eventually keep hurting Yourself, endangering Your Future & destroying Yourself in the Present. "Life goes on". Feel bad as much as You want but understand that when People are no longer interested in You anymore there is nothing Yo...

 1: LOWER YOUR VOICE Don't shout at her, she is not your child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting? 2: DO IT IN LOVE Correction should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation. 3a: DON'T CRITICIZE Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But truly, It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes. Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes  Correction and criticism are never the same 3b: HUSBAND A SAYS What manner of food is this? Is this popcorn or fried rice? how I wish I marry a more sensible wife with better home training, who can cook better. HUSBAND B SAYS sweetheart this rice it too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health. Husband A criticized while Husband B corrected his wife in love STOP CRITICIZING YOUR WIFE 4 PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT It will be wrong to correct when ...

It's possible for any man to ask for sex in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that sex, can't keep him..(Sex isn't enough) There are two major factors ladies complain about sex in a relationship: (1) After giving him my body he left me.. (2)He left because I refused to have sex with him.. NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining... ( Whats the difference) Ladies Listen, Sex isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man. If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside Sex, Please remain Single... A man can't stay with you because his having sex with you.... Relationship is not buying and selling. There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ... Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally? Men love intelligent ladies... Men love ladies with ideas.. Men love respectful ladies... Men respect ladies ...

How can two walk together unless they agree? The truth is, that many marriages get ruined because of misunderstandings. Misunderstandings are brought about by a lack of agreement on how to handle the issues that affect each marriage. Failing to agree will lead to the husband and wife interpreting things differently leading to feelings of hurt, insensitivity, rejection, intolerance and indifference. Agree with your spouse on the do's and don'ts. Have these rules. 1. SEX RULES  Agree that you can have sex in whichever way and position, but also agree on what you will not try out. For example; no anal sex, no masturbation when you have each other, no pornography use, no inflicting pain or no making love when she is on monthly periods and if he is horny then, how will she pleasure him? Each couple is different. Agree on what are the limits. 2. PHONE RULES  Agree on how to handle the phone. For example, no chatting with others past 11pm for that is an intimate time, no secrecy, no ...

1. WORKING SO HARD AT YOUR JOB/BUSINESS BUT NOT IN YOUR MARRIAGE Men, your company, your career, your business is growing and flourishing because you lead it; your marriage will grow and flourish when you lead it and dedicate time to it 2. THINKING THAT FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN IS NOT CHEATING  You may not physically sleep with other women but emotionally cheating is also unfaithfulness. Receiving nude images and having phone sex with other women is also cheating. Talking suggestively and attracting temptations is also cheating. If you are a flirt, flirt with your wife. If you claim your wife is too rigid, treat her well and she will respond to your kinky ways. She also wants sexual pleasure and to feel wanted 3. BEING GENEROUS OUTSIDE AND STINGY AT HOME Don't be the husband who quickly says yes when other people ask for help, for your time and your money; but stingy to your wife and child/children. Your family comes first. Don't go to harambees contributing large sums, helpi...