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AS A HUMAN WHO WANTS TO FALL IN LOVE READ INTENSIVELY 👇

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Don't fall in love with a person too fast, the day you learn how to discipline your emotions, it's that day you have conquered a strong weakness that has destroyed so many people.

You can love a person and yet not be desperate or act too needy.

After you have done all the needful to get someone to say YES, don't rush things, be calm and control your urge to please.

BEFORE YOU COMMIT to someone you must be informed well enough that a person is serious with you and here are some parameters I use to judge a person.

Accountability

Someone who loves you and want to be serious with you will be he/herself and be accountable both in deeds and in words, will always want to involve you in everything, in their life including there secrets, they won't be logical at all, very vulnerable in sharing secrets with you. Their transparency is key.

Their eagerness to always please you. A person who is serious with you will make your happiness their priority, they won't want to put you in a position of sadness. 

Submission:

a person who is serious with you will always be willing to submit to you, will respect and adore your words more often. Trust me.

Sacrificial

A person who is serious with you will always want to invest in you and that relationship, they would give you their time, attention and care this is non negotiable at all.

If this four things are not in place just know that they are playing a serious game with you and you are wasting your time with them, you either play the game with them or break up or allow yourself to learn the hard way..... your choice.

This is how I vet my partner and trust me if you weigh your partner on this scale void of emotional sentiments you will hardly go wrong trust me.

Learn or perish.

Stay putinized.

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