There are thirteen stupid things a Wife can do to mess up her Marriage, I want you to check them carefully and avoid them.
1) DARE HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You block the door way, you dare him to beat you and see what will happen, lots of women have done this in the past and they end up regretting it. It is unwise to do this.
2) DARE HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it
3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED
“I am married, who is looking at me” That was the defense of Mrs paul when she was confronted for the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married women and its a major mistake you can make.
4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY
You are a career woman, you feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, girls in Church are begging him to come but you padlock your body. I can see danger signal.
5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR
“My friend please be my eye, as I travelled for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa when she made the journey she will later regret all her life. By the time she came back her friend had really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband and two Children.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless friend.
6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE MAID
Your maid is the one that cook, clean the house, care for the Children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband you are the one graciously giving him to those that need him.
7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID
She is fully grown, well endowed in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses like an actress, cat walking like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake.
8) EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER
Employing a house girl that is more beautiful than them is a major technical mistake most women make. In the process many of them used their money to employ a rival for themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid.
9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND
Your husband is growing, you are sitting down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy, with jeans and face cap, you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman. Your husband is on Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp, Skype etc, the only thing you know about phone is to receive and make call. Your husband is talking about stock market, you only talk about tomato market, he is talking about Forex, you are talking about fruit and vegetables.
10) FAILS TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD
A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Don’t make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over your family to God, may you never labor in vain.
11) FIGHTING HER MOTHER IN LAW
You may fight your Mother In-law dirty and think you can win, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girl friend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflict.
12) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
when you tell your friend about your sex life she can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She can even know your husband “turn on” and use it against him and grab your husband. Most women carelessly lost their husband as they complain to their friends “my husband is too demanding, he does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I can’t kill myself” A friend will pick information like this and cover things up where you’ve been failing.
13) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It look beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will end up hurting you.
Most mothers will support their sons any day, children are always right before their mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum.
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